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Marriage is the noblest bond that can exist between a man and a lady. It is a relationship which is matched up in heaven and created on Earth. It is touted to be the strongest relation in this world. In more simple words "Marriage is a relationship between a man and a woman taking an oath that they stay together till their death". With the number of divorces taking place, this definition is changing. Today marriages are not seen to last for very long and there are a huge variety of reasons behind their going wrong, but the weirdest thing of all is that, generally these reasons are so baseless and can be solved easily. Problems like ego, inferiority complex or attitude problem are becoming reasons for divorce and even the fast paced modern and busy world are reasons for drifting apart. Below I list to you the very simple but highly valuable things which if you instill in your daily life can assist a lot in building up the relationship between both of you:

1) Avoid bringing out unwanted issues which may lead to a quarrel: Everyone knows the exact reason behind a quarrel and it is often very easy to solve these quarrels, of course, when the ego is kept aside and a calm talk is made with the partner over the reason you are fighting. Getting frustrated or losing your temper fast and also disparaging will only lead to more quarrels. Talking calmly or avoiding topics which can lead to fights can be a good way.

2) Listen to each other: Talking with each other bridges the gap between the two. The best way to express feelings, thoughts and emotions is conversing well. Since "our beloved ones are the only one who care about our future".

3) Cleanliness is another issue which should be paid attention to and good habits too do wonders.

4) Trust: Trust is the central aspect for your relationship to last. Over possessiveness leads to fights and drifts and that should be avoided, instead trust your partner, give good space and don't avoid your past from your partner. Everybody has a past and you don't have to be embarrassed if you haven't had a good one.

5) Respect your partner: Respect his/her views, thoughts, feelings and give the other the space to fully express themselves without any fear and respect each other for what they are and how they are and praise each other too. It contributes greatly to maintain a happy relationship going strong.

The key to successful marriage is to avoid being egoistic and solve problems calmly and with maturity.