You insist that it's reasonable, but the reasons are usually sentimental.
There's no room for sensibility during break-ups. It will take months or even years for the ex-couple to look back at their relationship with no trace of anger. It's not the case moments (or weeks) after the break-up; asking for advice is not uncommon.
You'll be hearing lots of advice, and you really don't know which one to follow (if you do, then you wouldn't ask in the first place). A part of you wants to move on, while another part of you misses the good times. So how can you tell if your ex boyfriend deserves a second chance? Here are three things to decide on:
* Do you really love him? This seems like an easy question to answer, but it isn't. You've know your ex well enough; you've seen his strengths and flaws. Loving him means accepting them both. It also means cherishing those good moments and being with him after a heated argument. This can't be answered in a day. Nostalgia can play with your mind too. If your answer is yes, then...
* Ask yourself if love is better the second time around. In the event of a reconciliation, don't assume that your being a couple again is a resumption of your relationship. Remember it's not the same as before. There's some emotional investment being made, so don't be surprised if things get serious. Don't be scared too if there's a talk (or even mention) of settling down. If you're sure about this, then...
* Can you handle your relationship better this time? Thinking about settling down doesn't mean that you're trying to visualize yourself having kids with your ex-boyfriend. Or even growing old with him. Remember that this is about how to get back with your ex boyfriend. It's natural to look ahead, but take it one at a time. If you're more than certain that you can handle your ex boyfriend (and your affair) better, then it's time to call him to meet him and talk.
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